Episode 236: The Truth About Teen Drinking: What Parents Need to Know and How to Talk About It with Dr. Robert Turrisi and Catrina Clemens

As parents, many of us worry about how to prepare our kids for the teenage years—especially when it comes to conversations around drugs and alcohol. In this week’s episode of The Balanced Parent Podcast, I welcome two incredible guests from Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD), Dr. Robert Turrisi, a professor and prevention researcher at Penn State University, and Catrina Clemens, MADD’s Vice President of Strategic Initiatives.

Here are the main points:

  • Preparing tweens for exposure to substances and guiding healthy decisions about alcohol.

  • Exploring different parenting approaches to teen alcohol use and engaging each group in prevention.

  • Understanding why delaying teen drinking as long as possible reduces long-term risks.

  • How early drinking and parental permission heighten risks due to developing teen brains.

  • Research showing no evidence that “teaching kids to drink safely” at home is protective.

  • Building open, judgment-free communication and safety plans for risky situations.

  • Helping teens feel safe calling parents for help when needed.

  • The importance of setting clear no-alcohol rules and delaying drinking to lower risk and strengthen influence.

If you’d like more resources on how to talk with your kids about alcohol and substance use, visit madd.org to access MADD’s Power of Parents guides, tools, and upcoming audiobook. You can also connect with Mothers Against Drunk Driving on social media for ongoing tips and inspiration, Facebook @MothersAgainstDrunkDriving, Instagram @maddnational, X (formerly Twitter) @MADDNational and Tiktok @maddnational

Remember, these conversations don’t have to be perfect—just ongoing, open, and filled with care. The more we talk, the more our kids learn to trust us and make safe choices.