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Parenting is often lived in the extremes. It's either Great Joy or chaotic overwhelmed. In one moment you’re nailing it and the next you're losing your cool I want to help you find your way to the messy middle, to a place of balance. You see, balance is a verb not a state of being. it is a thing you do not a thing you are. it is an action a process a series of micro-corrections each and every day to keep ourselves feeling centered. We are never truly balanced. We are engaged in the process of balancing.

Hello, I’m Dr. Laura Froyen and this is the Balanced Parent podcast, where overwhelmed stressed out and disconnected parents go to find tools, mindset shifts and practices to help them stop yelling at the people they love and start connecting on a deeper level, all delivered with heaping doses of grace and compassion. Join me in conversations that will help you get clear on your goals and values and start showing up in your parenting, your relationships, YOUR LIFE, with open-hearted authenticity and balance. Let’s go!

What’s really going on beneath your child’s behavior? And how might their nervous system be shaped long before you ever respond to a meltdown?

In this episode, I’m joined by pediatric acupuncturist and herbalist David Allen to explore how kids’ nervous systems develop, how stress shows up in the body, and why some children seem more sensitive, reactive, or “spicy” than others.

Here are the key takeaways:

How pregnancy stress shapes your child’s nervous system
Why some kids and parents react faster than others
Moving from reacting to regulating in moments of anger
Helping parents stay calm to support their child’s emotional regulation and break the cycle of reactive discipline
Parenting strategies that help build the pause before reacting
Teaching parents self-regulation to support kids’ emotions and reduce reactions.
Raising children’s stress threshold
Healthy routines and activities (reducing screens, encouraging outside play)

Learn more from David at davidallenlac.com and follow on Instagram @healthykidsacupuncture.

Remember, that regulation isn’t about perfection. It’s about practice. And when we support our own nervous systems, we naturally begin to support our children’s, too.

Tune in to discover how their nervous system shapes reactions—and how you can help them (and yourself) stay regulated.

Laura Froyen, PhD

Laura Froyen, PhD

Balanced Parent Podcast

Laura Froyen, PhD

Welcome to the home of The Balanced Parent Podcast!

Episode 254: Parenting Strategies to Calm and Strengthen Kids' Nervous Systems with David Allen