Episode 248: Parenting Yourself First: Breaking Generational Cycles and Healing Your Inner Child with Shelly Robinson
/What if the hardest part of parenting… is actually parenting ourselves? In this powerful and honest conversation, I sit down with Shelly Robinson, founder of Raising Yourself, to talk about the long, layered journey of breaking generational cycles, healing our inner child, and becoming more compassionate, conscious parents.
Here are the topics we covered:
Parenting through triggers and healing our inner child
Recognizing parenting triggers linked to childhood wounds
Understanding why our children’s behavior triggers our inner child and how to respond
Raising ourselves in the moment while parenting our child
Why building new parenting habits and modeling respectful boundaries takes time
How parents can stay motivated and compassionate during long-term behavior change despite setbacks
Using play, joy, and childhood-inspired activities to regulate ourselves and model emotional balance for our kids
If you want to explore tools and guidance for raising yourself alongside your kids, visit Shelly Robinson’s website shellyrobinson.com and follow her on Facebook @raisingyourself and Instagram @raising_yourself.
Remember that the hardest part of parenting isn’t just guiding our kids—it’s learning to parent ourselves with patience, play, and compassion