Episode 248: Parenting Yourself First: Breaking Generational Cycles and Healing Your Inner Child with Shelly Robinson

What if the hardest part of parenting… is actually parenting ourselves? In this powerful and honest conversation, I sit down with Shelly Robinson, founder of Raising Yourself, to talk about the long, layered journey of breaking generational cycles, healing our inner child, and becoming more compassionate, conscious parents.

Here are the topics we covered:

  • Parenting through triggers and healing our inner child

  • Recognizing parenting triggers linked to childhood wounds

  • Understanding why our children’s behavior triggers our inner child and how to respond

  • Raising ourselves in the moment while parenting our child

  • Why building new parenting habits and modeling respectful boundaries takes time

  • How parents can stay motivated and compassionate during long-term behavior change despite setbacks

  • Using play, joy, and childhood-inspired activities to regulate ourselves and model emotional balance for our kids

If you want to explore tools and guidance for raising yourself alongside your kids, visit Shelly Robinson’s website shellyrobinson.com and follow her on Facebook @raisingyourself and Instagram @raising_yourself.

Remember that the hardest part of parenting isn’t just guiding our kids—it’s learning to parent ourselves with patience, play, and compassion