Episode 230: Finding Balance in the Sandwich Generation Journey with Dr. Shirley Davis

In this week’s episode of The Balanced Parent Podcast, we’ll explore the realities of the sandwich generation—the unique challenge of caring for both children and aging parents at the same time. Joining me is Dr. Shirley Davis, a certified leadership coach and recognized authority on workplace culture transformation, who is also living through the sandwich generation. Having recently relocated her parents to live with her while supporting her daughter, Shirley shares practical insights and heartfelt advice on balancing caregiving responsibilities across generations.

Here’s a summary of what we discussed:

  • Understanding the sandwich generation and its struggles

  • Navigating the challenges of living with and caring for aging parents

  • How to navigate and communicate with aging parents when transitioning to living together as independent adults

  • How to balance caregiving responsibilities for both children and aging parents

  • Seeing aging parents as whole people and rebuilding compassionate adult relationships with them

  • Balancing forgiveness and realistic boundaries to care for aging parents while redefining the relationship to avoid regrets

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To learn more about Dr. Shirley, visit her website drshirleydavis.com and follow her on Instagram @shirleydavisphd, Facebook @drshirleythesuccessordoctor, LinkedIn @drshirleydavis and YouTube @drshirleydavis.

Remember, balancing care for both your children and aging parents is challenging, but also an opportunity to grow compassion and strengthen family bonds.